How to perform hot erotic massages with sensual tantric sex at the end at home? Keep reading this article and you will learn it! Tantric sex has been practised by people for thousands of years so there must be something in it.

Though teachings of tantric were in the beginnings not focusedon sexuality but were more about mastering and understanding our own body energy,tantric massage or sex is very passionate act between two partners and it might bring many positives into your relationship.

Tantric massage might:

  • Lead to emotional and psychical release
  • Make your love even stronger
  • Improve your sexual life
  • Release body tension
  • Strengthen trust in each other

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Erotic massages – what you always need to make it right

Not only for tantric massage but for every erotic massage you will definitely need this stuff:

  • Massage gel or massage oil
  • Towels
  • Candles to enlighten the room slightly for the most passionate and relaxing impression.
  • Relaxing music (or slow one)
  • Reassuring and intimate ambience is key to success – turn off every disturbing machine

Tip #1: Focus on breathing is very important

Breathing deeply decreases tension and stress and on the other hand increases relaxation, helps you to focus on pleasure and bringing more oxygen into your blood stream.

Making deep breathing rather subconscious act will help you a lot to let your mind focus only on soft touches, pleasure and relaxing.

Breathing together is a great way how to connect with each other and make you both on the same feelings. An easy exercise to learn this is to straddle your partner, sitting on their lap and inhale while they exhale. While your partner is breathing out, take their breath into your entire body. It might be a bit weird at first but persevere and the connection it brings might be very deep.

Tip #2: Tidy up your bedroom

It is all about the ambience so try to make your room an inviting place, gentle and sensual. Play a relaxing music, dim the lights etc. But first of all tidy up! There is nothing less erotic than a dirty underwear lying around.

Next step is to make sure you are not going to be interrupted (as mentioned above). It means to turn off phone, lock the door if need be, put the cat or dog out.

Also make sure your room is warm enough. You do not want to get chilly during a long session of love making. Worry about the bills another time, now is time to crank up the heating.

Tip #3: Keep eye contact

Tantric sex is about connection to your partner and about the actual moment. One of the ways to achieve it is eye contact, as it brings immediate intimacy. One of the quickest ways to deepen intimacy is to look into each other´s eyes.

To learn it, you can take 5 minutes in your day to practise with your partner or include eye-gazing in your foreplay. It will make sex much hotter experience and will help you to fall in love over and over again.

Tip #4: Talk with your partner

Not about who feeds the dog or what you want for dinner. Talk about sex! Tell your partner if you like what they are doing, how they could improve the experience for you or what would you like to do. Rather than just moan when you are enjoying a certain position, verbalise why you like it – simply said, open the lines of communication.

Tip #5: Use every sense you have to feel the joy and pleasure!

Do not just touch but also focus on smell, sight and taste to help you awaken your senses and make them more responsive to all effects. Combine bringing music into the bedroom or food (such as fruit or chocolate), maybe bring a blindfold so that your partner cannot rely on sight. Instead they will have to focus on touch or smells – other senses.

Bonus tip: Do not forget to use your sex toys to enhance the experience even more. Check out this wearable vibrator for couples to inspire yourself.

Tantric sex is a slow form of sex that should increase intimacy and create body and mind connection that can lead to powerful orgasms. It is not about having sex continually. The idea is to let the pleasure build slowly until finally you release with your partner.

Have you any interesting experiences or advices you would like to share with us? Feel free to comment!